Observe the instructions below as you enter through the door
·Laptop closed, every device off
·Phones away, screens dark, headphones out
·Let the room be quiet for the next few minutes
The work will still be here. Let us start somewhere else.
Who she was
Marcella of Rome
Rome · c. 325 – 410
Engraving of the scene Jerome describes: Rome has fallen, the soldiers are in her house, and she is on her knees — not for herself, but asking them to spare her student Principia.
A Roman noblewoman of a consular family, widowed seven months into her marriage.
A rich old consul proposed. She said she would look for a husband, not an inheritance — and when he argued that old men sometimes outlive young ones, she replied that “a young man may indeed die early, but an old man cannot live long.”
She was the first highborn woman in Rome to publicly profess the monastic life, when the word was still a term of reproach.
Her house on the Aventine became a school. Paula and Eustochium were formed there.
After Jerome left Rome, disputed questions about Scripture were referred to her to settle.
In the sack of Rome in 410 soldiers beat her for gold she did not have. She begged them only to spare her student Principia, and died a few days later.
Today she is the one who would not take an answer on authority alone.
The practice
Teachability
hands on your lap · feet on the floor · a slow breath
Marcella disputed Jerome’s answers — not to win, but to learn.
·Think of something you believe because of who told you
·Ask honestly whether you have ever tested it
·Ask for the nerve to keep asking questions
·And for the humility to be corrected
Spiritual Disciplines Handbook · Adele Ahlberg Calhoun · Part 2 · Open Myself to God
breathe
“She never came to see me that she did not ask me some question … nor would she at once acquiesce in my explanations, but would dispute them; not for argument’s sake, but to learn.”